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Aurora
10-09-2009, 01:40 PM
We're officially unschooling, 100% yes, full steam ahead, wooo! And feeling super happy about it at last, with no more niggling doubts or insecurities. What a relief, to just be able to let go of all the anxious ''What if''s and continue on, living and learning as we already are! I've been fairly convinced unschooling was the right road for us since my son (now 4) was an infant, but I've been up and down about the whole thing over the years, with other people getting into my head aswell as having to deschool myself regarding my misconceptions of what learning is.

Anyway, I'm finally at a point now I'm feeling excited and thankful to be avoiding the stressful school deal. Reading Rue Kream's book recently helped me simplify things. Do you and your child want to stay together? Yes? Then that's all you really need to unschool. Stop stressing, the rest will come naturally.

I told my Mum yesterday, and she's very supportive so that's good! Not necessary but it all helps of course. Now it's all about building community, there is a local homeschooling group but hardly any unschoolers, so that's my next project, funneling some time and energy intos spreading the natural learning word and getting a group happening.

Just wanted to share my :eager:eager:eager.

cgull
10-09-2009, 03:02 PM
Good to hear. Have fun!

Anaed
10-09-2009, 03:52 PM
:eager its a wonderful feeling when you surrender to just living isn't it :D

Janet
10-09-2009, 03:55 PM
:eager its a wonderful feeling when you surrender to just living isn't it :D
:clap

Ayla
10-09-2009, 04:30 PM
:congrats I'm so happy for you!! :families

Aurora
10-09-2009, 06:28 PM
Thanks, yep indeed Dee, this has been a great lesson in surrendering for me. I don't know why I fought it for so long, I mean, it wasn't really conscious but I just couldn't get comfy with the idea, the ''but''s seemed never ending! But apparently they did have an end lol. I guess we all have our own stories as to how long, and how, we arrive at peace with unschooling, I just look a little longer than most :) *big breath out* Lovely to be here in this nice, chilled mindset at last.

Jasmine
10-09-2009, 06:41 PM
How exciting for you and your family :)

Ceres
11-09-2009, 10:12 AM
That is wonderful :) I can relate to the sense of relief when the decision is made.

GreenGully
11-09-2009, 12:17 PM
Fantastic news K!!! I'm very happy for you :)

Sadorian
11-09-2009, 01:48 PM
Yay!

I've found it getting easier as DD gets older as well. All of a sudden, her learning is really starting to become evident ie: solid things like reading words, writing, regurgitating interesting facts :D.

I guess I feel like its actually working yk? :blueroll