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Ayla
06-11-2008, 08:03 AM
http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,24609386-2702,00.html



No TV in first two years, says childhood expert
Stephen Lunn, social affairs writer | November 06, 2008

US childhood expert Michael Rich can recite, chapter and verse, the research linking children's overuse of media to health issues such as obesity, anxiety and aggression.

So how does he manage television and computer games for his own boys, Jason, 4, and Ian, 2?

"My kids have had no screen time to 30 months because there is no evidence they can learn anything from TV that young," says Rich, director ofHarvard University's Centre for Media and Child Health. "We know what strengthens brain architecture at that age. It's face-to-face dialogue with people, manipulating their physical environment such as stacking blocks or getting food into their own mouth, and open-ended problem solving using creative play such as time in a sandbox with a bucket of water.

"Beyond that age my wife and I do our homework; we find educational programs promoting skills like sharing and working in a group. I also video everything and run straight through the ads. Because kids love ads, and ad makers know they do."

Rich, who works in pediatrics at Boston Children's Hospital, addresses the Australia and New Zealand Adolescent Health annual conference in Melbourne today. He has an unusual background -- 12 years in the film industry. This informs his views. "I think the media should be treated as a fine art," he says. "I want to expose (my children) to the good stuff and at the right time in their lives."

Rich says American children aged eight to 18 use media, including TV, iPods and computer games, for an average of 6 1/2 hours a day, and he suspects Australian kids would be little different. Media is more pervasive than school, friendship or parents, he says.

"Our research has shown there are clear health links between media use and obesity and risk-taking behaviour in children," Rich says.

It's OK for parents to say no or to limit screen time to an hour or two a day, he says. And older children should be encouraged to "deconstruct" media so they understand its potential impact.

Rich says responsible use of media can be positive. The key is to ensure parents are deciding how much and what media is consumed.

Asrathiel
08-11-2008, 09:13 PM
'Remotely Controlled' (very interesting book) reckons no screentime til at least three years, then an absolute maximum of an hour a day.

If a 75 year old had watched the average amount of TV each day for their whole lives, they would have spent 12 years or so staring at a screen. What a waste!

Sarasvati
09-11-2008, 09:02 AM
I've decided to cut down Kira's TV time, it's doing my head in. I'd LIKE to allow her autonomy to decide how much she watches but it doesn't sit well with me, doesn't feel right for her. She zones out and gets cranky and frantic. So we're limiting her to 2 hours a day, yesterday she had an hour of TV and 30 mins of xbox (argh in itself). She was content to turn it off after the time which is a positive.

I know she's 4, not 3 or under, but with the eldest watching it means the youngest is also exposed and I'd prefer Imogen not be hooked on TV from an early age!

breeze
09-11-2008, 10:03 AM
I know I allow our kids to watch too much tv because I hate saying no all the time and for selfish reasons, I do enjoy the break. But I think there has to be a point where what is best for the child has to come first. Ds son does get cranky and "bored" more easilywhen he has been watching a lot of tv. Thank you for the article Ayla, good reminder for me to get off my ass and stop being so lazy and have the tv off more often :)

Janet
09-11-2008, 11:18 AM
Anastasia, as you know, I like to explore self regulation stuff in my family but I suspect tv is different because it's not driven by anything internal, it's not part of our biology. So I think that some kids can regulate, and some can't. Sleep, eating, any other sort of biological imperative I support my children to organise for themselves since I ain't in their bodies knowing what they're feeling. TV/dvds is pretty well driven by them and I've relied on it to get through the early months of pregnancy but like all avenues for influences I choose to avoid in my home, I'll turn it off at times when I deem it necessary. I've observed other children who are likewise self regulating around other things be unable to do it with tv. It's interesting stuff. :)

Ceres
09-11-2008, 06:32 PM
I agree Janet, TV is so addictive it's almost impossible for my child to self-regulate his TV time. It's something I definitely need to do for him at the moment.

Ayla
09-11-2008, 07:34 PM
I've never thought of it that way, Janet, interesting!

~*heket*~
09-11-2008, 07:35 PM
Neither of my kids are that into tv come to think of it!? NOthing to do with me, they just regulated themselves apparently.

Janet
09-11-2008, 09:48 PM
My kids will watch stuff but then have enough and wander off to play. They don't tend to get the glazed look going and if it appears I switch off. :lol We're lucky here, I reckon. :)

Ceres
10-11-2008, 10:34 AM
My boy gets that glazed over, switched off look on his face and is apparently unable to hear anything else around him. It looks a lot like hypnosis, and that's the reason I hate too much screen time.

Sarasvati
10-11-2008, 01:11 PM
Ceres that's what Kira is like. Her dad is like that too, total tunnel vision when it is on.

Yeah Janet that's how I feel about TV. Hence my struggle to reconcile radical unschooling with my instincts about Kira and TV. Since we've put limits on TV she is finding things to do, she is playing with trains again, building her train tracks, doing FAR more imaginative stuff and is FAR less cranky and irritable. She's actually choosing more time playing on the xbox than just watching TV but I'm not actually that bothered because she is learning stuff from it (kid's edu games). So I'm quite happy with how it is going.

Ayla
10-11-2008, 01:26 PM
That's really great to hear A :)

Aurora
11-11-2008, 08:53 AM
Interesting perspective Janet!

Someone on a list once said that children will almost always prefer to be doing something fun with a parent instead of passively watching tellie, so if your child gets upset at the idea of turning the tellie off, maybe that's a good opportunity to connect and do something fun outside together.

Janet has mentioned, and I am sure many of us agree, that a parents job isn't to spend the whole day as a playmate, and I don't know many children who desire entire days of contrived play anyway. But I think facilitating play and sometimes joining in can be fun and also provides us with a lighthearted break from whatever we're doing.

Janet
11-11-2008, 09:24 AM
I think helping children move through any hiccups caused at that point is useful. I sometimes suggest they come in the backyard and do stuff like peg out washing with me.

Ayla
01-06-2009, 10:01 PM
:bump for Ratis